Raising Your Spirited Child~The spirited child--often called "difficult" or "strong-willed"--
easily overwhelm parents, leaving them feeling frustrated and inadequate. Spirited kids are, in fact, simply "more"--by temperament,
they are more intense, sensitive, perceptive, persistent, and uncomfortable with change than the average child. Through vivid
examples and a refreshingly positive viewpoint, Mary Sheedy Kurcinka offers parents emotional support and proven strategies
for handling their spirited child. Raising Your Spirited Child will help you:
Understand your child's--and your own--temperamental traitsPlan for success with a simple four-step programDiscover the
power of positive--rather than negative--labelsCope with tantrums and blowups when they do occurDevelop strategies for handling
mealtimes, bedtimes, holidays, school and many other situations
Filled with personal insight and authorative advice, Raising Your Spirited Child can help make parenting the joy
it should be, rather than the trial it can be.
The Out of Sync Child
~ "Difficult." "Picky." "Oversensitive."
"Clumsy." "Unpredictable." "Inattentive." Children who have been labeled with words like these may actually be suffering from
Sensory Integration Disorder-a very common, but frequently misdiagnosed, condition that can manifest itself in excessively
high or low activity levels, problems with motor coordination, oversensitivity or undersensitivity to sensations and movements,
and other symptoms. This guide, written by an expert in the field, explains how SI Dysfunction can be confused with ADD, learning
disabilities, and other problems, tells how parents can recognize the problem-and offers a drug-free treatment approach for
children who need help.
Does your child constantly misbehave and ignore or refuse your requests for proper behavior? Is your relationship with
your child based on conflict instead of mutual respect and cooperation? With the help of this groundbreaking book, you can
create a positive, respectful, and rewarding relationship with your child.
Inside are proven techniques and procedures that provide a refreshing alternative to the ineffective extremes of punishment
and permissiveness. Parents and teachers alike will discover how to effectively motivate the strong-willed child and achieve
proper conduct. You will learn how to:
Understand and empathize without giving in
Hold your ground without threatening
daily power struggles between you and your child
Give clear, firm messages that your child understands and respects
Nurture By Nature~Personality-type assessment helps parents learn about a child's individuality. Armed with
knowledge of that individuality, parents can add understanding and acceptance to their unconditional love, gear their parenting
to the needs of the child, and help the child develop lasting self-esteem and happiness. According to Myers and Briggs, inventors
of the personality inventory scales that bear their names, there are 16 types of personality, each of which is characterized
by preferences in interpersonal interaction, sorts of information noticed and remembered, methods of decision making, and
degrees of structure found desirable. Tieger and Barron-Tieger offer detailed interpretations of each of the Myers-Briggs
types as they flesh out personality assessment as a valuable parenting resource, stressing that how valuable will depend quite
heavily on specific parents' insights, perceptiveness, and imagination. Some prior familiarity with personality-type assessment
will help in making the best use of their advice, yet this remains a remarkable tool for relating to children. Kathryn
The Explosive Child~An explosive child who frequently exhibits severe noncompliance, temper outbursts,
and verbal or physical aggression. If this sounds like your child, you're probably feeling frustrated, guilt-ridden, and overwhelmed.
At last, Dr. Ross Greene offers help for you and your child. Now updated with new practical information, The Explosive
Child lays out a sensitive, practical approach to helping your child at home and school, including: reducing hostility
and antagonism between the child and adultsanticipating situations in which the child is most likely to explodecreating an
eviornment in which explosions are less likely to occurfocusing less on reward and punishment and more on communication and
calloborating problem solvinghelping your child develop the skills to be more flexible and handle frustration more adaptively
In The Explosive Child, you'll find ways to regain and optimism and to handle your child's difficulties competently
and with compassion. With Dr. Green's realistic, expert advice, you and your child will discover a relationship you can both
feel good about.
Living With the Active Alert Child
fearful, and highly energetic, active alert children are frequently misdiagnosed as hyperactive or learning disabled. This
book shows parents and teachers how to raise, teach, and enjoy active alerts by offering:
-a clear description of common characteristics
-day-to-day parenting strategies with real case histories
-information on how active alerts learn and what school situations work best
-descriptions of active alerts as adults, and as parents themselves
The Edison Trait
~"My daughter lives in her own world, sitting in the back of the classroom, doodling unicorns.
She's a bright kid who's getting lost. How do we reach her?"
"My son can program my laptop, but I have to hound him
constantly to do the simplest things. How can I motivate him?"
"My kid has to get his own way. And he's always racing
around, always on the go. How can such a smart kid be so hard to live with?"
Millions of children--one in five--have
what psychologist Lucy Jo Palladino, Ph.D., calls the Edison trait: dazzling intelligence, an active imagination, a free-spirited
approach to life, and the ability to drive everyone around them crazy. They have the raw talent to succeed in our fast-paced,
information-rich, techno-magic world. But, unbridled, their talent also brings conflict into their lives. Edison-trait kids
excel at thinking divergently, brimming over with one idea after the other. However, schools, organized activities, and routines
of daily living reward convergent thinking, which seeks to focus on one idea at a time. Parents and teachers get frustrated
by the Edison-trait child's apparent intractability and lack of focus. A mismatch between school and child can mask the child's
considerable gifts for creativity and independent thinking.
Drawing on examples from over two decades of private practice,
Dr. Palladino helps parents, teachers and others appreciate this challenging aspect of their child's intellect and personality.
She distinguishes and describes the three main styles of the Edison trait. Dreamers live in their own world, following no
one's schedule but their own. Discoverers insist on learning about and experiencing the world firsthand. Dynamos are full
of energy, with a flair for surprises, power, and speed.
A small percentage of Edison-trait kids also have Attention
Deficit Disorder (ADD), which puts them at even greater risk for problems in school. To address parents' concerns, The Edison
Trait includes chapters on defining, diagnosing, and treating ADD.
Thomas Edison, who flunked out of school was able
to harness his talents to give the world some of its finest inventions. Today this same ability to brainstorm thrives in creative
geniuses such as Maya Angelou, Bill Gates, and Ted Turner.
Dr. Palladino offers eight guidelines for parents to understand
and help Edison-trait kids:
1 Believe in your child.
2 Watch what you say.
3 Build a parent-and-child
4 Encourage your child's interests.
5 Teach your child self-control.
6 Coach your child to learn
how to achieve.
7 Take care of yourself.
8 Take care of your family.
The Edison trait is on the rise
in our younger generation, who are growing up in a world of accelerated change. Dr. Palladino reveals the link between Edisonian
thinking and Information Age success. She explains how Edison-trait children are born leaders of the twenty-first century.
Her inspiring and reassuring book will light the way.